Sometimes, people don't fully understand the depth of your pain when you're gripped by the throes of a breakup.
What's even more infuriating is when you're offered unsolicited advices like, "He's not the only one out there" or "You'll get over it" or "That's ok, you'll be ok," blah, blah, blah, blah. Sure, there could be some shred of truth to that. But to a person in grief, reason and logic is thrown out the window.
On the other hand, you're not totally helpless either. Rekindle a broken relationship today. You don't have to lose a wonderful man without putting up a good fight. Don't just sit back and let it happen!
Girl Power Unite!
Get your friends or relatives together and talk it out. Tell them what you can share about what happened in the relationship. Though not all will be able to empathize with you, conveying your emotions will certainly lift a heavy load off your chest. Without a doubt, you'll get an earful of advice by night's end. When you're in a more rational state, sift through all their words of wisdom and take the good ones to heart.
He Said, She Said...
Get a man's point of view. Now that you have the women's opinions, even it out by talking with male friends. To rekindle a broken relationship involves understanding your partner's side. Guy friends will be able to offer honest and independent male point of view on what happened. It's so easy not to be objective about love matters when you're in the equation. See it through their eyes and be receptive, not defensive.
Think!
Take time for out for yourself and think. Evaluate everything you've heard. Reflect on your own actions and own up to your mistakes.
Talk...
Don't be coy; tell your man how you feel. Muster enough courage and tell him you want him back. Make him know that you're open to compromise and are determined to make this relationship stick. But don't try to rush or force him either. Take baby steps. Don't worry; you'll get there, eventually.
I know that it's never an easy task when it comes to getting your ex back by setting yourself small goals and getting a plan it is possible. Win your Ex back with a plan but don't rush it!
Hopefully Helpful By Jasmine Mayfair
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